KUALA LUMPUR: Actress and television host Didie Alias has revealed that her once-close friendship with fellow actress Amyza Aznan has become strained, and the pair have not spoken for almost three months.
Didie, whose real name is Fadzilah Mohd Ali, 54, admitted she feels disappointed and sad about the situation, especially since they used to be as close as family.
She said the misunderstanding started when her efforts to help and give advice were mistaken for meddling in Amyza’s personal life.
“I am rather disappointed, but it’s all right. Perhaps she has her own answers, and I think it is best to let her explain what is happening now,” she said in recent news reports.
“I am sad because our relationship was like family. When I speak out of concern and offer advice, I’m instead accused of being too involved in other people’s affairs, and perhaps some people end up disliking me.
“I have done my best and tried to help as much as I could. The decision is now in her hands, so I have to put the brakes on. Matters concerning her children, husband and family are for her to handle. I no longer want to get involved,” she added.
Didie chose not to go into detail about the disagreement, saying Amyza is in a better position to explain what happened.
Still, she stressed that the fallout has not stopped her from wanting to help others. “I am fine, and I have no regrets. I treat everyone well,” she said.
Despite their differences, Didie said she was happy to see Amyza nominated alongside her for Popular TV Supporting Actress at the upcoming ABPBH 38.
She sees their nominations as proof that veteran performers still have a place in the entertainment industry.
“I am happy to see that she is also nominated. All the old-timers are competing in the same category. It feels less like a competition and more like an opportunity for us to catch up and chat,” she said.
Didie had previously stood by Amyza through difficult times, especially after the death of Amyza’s eldest son, Andre Mikhail, in February.
She also helped raise funds for Amyza’s family after her second son, Adrian Adam, was diagnosed with bone cancer.